Being Military Around the Holidays

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Being in the military can mean being away from family, not just your immediate family but you your parents, sister, brother, etc. How do you handle this? I've grown up military so for me this isn't too big a deal but there are times that I become really homesick for mom and dad, especially around the holidays.

I don't remember many holidays but I do know that my family had HUGE family get-togethers, which means during the holidays I can grow very lonely when I'm hearing about all the family excitement. Yes, I do have my own but it is nothing compared to the HUGE family teasing and of course the meals served. There'd be no way you'd catch me cooking 9 different types of pies, 3 hams, 2 turkeys and many other sides. So you tell me, would you miss this? How would you deal with being hundreds of miles away from others?

For us, living near family always meant driving down 9 hours or more to visit everyone's house for Christmas or some other holiday. However, this would soon change when we were moved from one side of the states to the other. Too many miles to travel, three kids and knowing it would just cost too much money for a plane ticket for us to visit. Instead boxes would come a week or two prior to the holiday, showing the kids that they were never forgotten and of course we'd always get those phone calls before, during and after the get-togethers. This helped me feel like I was still being included in the family gatherings and that I wasn't miles away.

Granted for some, choosing to save up those dollars for a plane ticket would be easy. Save up the money and buy the tickets in the summer, however I've already learned that in the military it isn't always easy to do this. Things change, spouses might have to have duty during the break or have to be at an important meeting, not to mention there is schooling they might need to attend. So, making plans early on may not happen in the end.

Of course you may end up living near your family and find out at the last minute everyone is planning on coming to your house for the holidays. You'd better be prepared, you might not find out until the guests start showing up at the gate.

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Eliza Ferree is a military wife and mother to three children and currently pregnant with #4. Growing up as a "Military Brat" and marrying into the Marine Corps she's known no other life.

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